And then one day she was a young woman
In love for the very first time
She glowed and laughed and was beautiful
Every spare moment was spent together
They couldn’t get enough of each other
Gifts and love notes, racing hearts and fireworks
A year and a half of love and laughter
Kindred spirits with the same interests and humour
Then one day it unexpectedly ended, leaving her heartbroken
There’s a hole in her life that is achingly empty
There are tears, anger, determined strength and self pride
As the end of a treasured first love is processed
I feel every emotion that she feels, I love her so
I’ve had heartbreak too in my younger years
but she handles it with so much more grace than I ever did
So proud
Linking up with With Some Grace’s #FYBF
Categories: General Mish Mash
Now you’ve got me wondering who the girl is – are you writing about you once upon a time? Or your daughter???!
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You’re on the mark Janet … but it’s not me. You know how tricky it is when you have ‘young adults’. I didn’t want to make it too obviously her in case she reads it and gets upset with me. I have felt all of her pain. I’ve been there myself in the past *sigh*!!
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Ugh I remember when my first love and I broke up – boo. Hugs to whoever is feeling this hole x
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Thanks Em – see my response to Janet and you’ll get a bit more clarity. I’ve been there too – it’s so hard. xo
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Ahh young love and first love is so difficult and heartbreaking. I hope the person you write about is doing okay 🙂
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It is isn’t it! She’s doing remarkably well now. Way better than I did at the same age. She’s amazing 🙂 x
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Beautiful words that capture the heartache of young love so well xx
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Thanks so much Lauren! 🙂 xo
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First love is so precious. I guess I am very fortunate that the only man I have ever dated is my husband, so I am still in love with my first love.
Hope her tender heart heals soon
xxx
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Thank you! Wow you are indeed very fortunate! How wonderful to be married to your first love and still be in love. That is very special. xo
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I think losing your first love is one of the hardest breakups to experience. I hope your girl’s heart doesn’t take too long to heal.
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Thanks Georgia. It certainly isn’t an easy thing to come to terms with, particularly after 1 1/2 years but she is doing extraordinarily well. I’m so proud of her 🙂 xo
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It sounds like she’s got great support in you as she goes through this tough time. I’m certain that your support will make a huge difference in how she deals with her heartbreak. xx
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Oh, it reminds me too much of my first love! All those emotions come flooding back reading this!
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All those emotions of heartache of my youth came flooding back too Grace. I guess that was a good thing though, because I understood what she was feeling so precisely and could be a good shoulder and support to her through this 🙂 xo
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First loves are hard when they break up… but thank God I didn’t marry him! Tell your sweet one there is light at the end of the tunnel and the right person will come their way soon. 🙂
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LOL – he must’ve been a doozy! I have told her exactly what you have written. Thank you! 🙂 xo
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This is just so beautiful written. I hope my own daughter is able to handle her first heartache when inevitably it comes along with more grace and maturity than I did. You have obviously done a marvellous job as her mum and her mentor 🙂
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Thanks so much Lizzy. Sometimes you wish you could protect your kids from all these things that life throws at us but you can’t. They have to go through them as we did. We just have to be there to help them through. She has handled it with so much more grace and maturity than I ever did. I’m sure your daughter will too 😉 xo
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Hi Min! I read this post when you published it but I’m just getting around commenting today. My parents are now back to Canada and I’m just getting back into the blogging world today. This post is so beautifully written. I remember my first heartbreak, it was so hard… I’m sending positive thoughts and love from Melbourne to your daughter.
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Hi Rita – I hope you’re not missing your parents too much! Thank you for the compliment on the post! MissM is just fine now – a few days to come to terms with it and she is great now. She’s amazing! Totally not the scenario I remember from my first heartbreak! lol xo
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Aww nice. First love is the sweetest but is also the hardest breakup!
I hope she’s excellent now.
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Thank you! She is amazing and doing great now 🙂 xo
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